I was reading a blog entry about "Dakwah Strategies" and i saw an English idiom which is new for me--> "Water off a duck's back" meaning as followed http://www.bartleby.com/59/4/wateroffaduc.html

When i read the entry i relate this idiom with Malay proverb/idiom "bagai mencurahkan air ke daun keladi".

So yes lately ive been trying to relate Malay and English idioms/proverbs, n it's really fun..hehe.


Today is V-day..waterver!!i opened my inbox there were few junk emails about V-day,flipped the newspaper there was some ads of promotions due to dis so-called special day for lovers, switched on news and there was some reports on how lovers celebrate dis day..HAhaha..CrabStick!(dis is my spelling..weeee)

Den i watched my favourite must-see programme "Selamat Pagi Malaysia" and my utmost favourite segment "Islam Hadhari"..and today's topic made me widely smiled which is " Cinta Monyet"-Puppy Love..wakaka..let me share what i can recalled n some of my own inputs.

Ckp melayu lah senang..mudah ckit nak paraphrase..haha

Apa itu definasi cinta monyet?Cinta monyet adalah cinta yg sekejap aje, main2, happy2..yerlah mcm monyet..terkinja2 kesukaan, tergaru2 sebab "kegatalan"..hehe..pandai betul ahli bahasa ni associate cinta yg main2 dgn monyet..hee..berbakti juga monyet dlm istilah bahasa kita..

Normally cinta yg mcm gini tak ada matlamat,hanya untk mengisi kesunyian..sunyi sbb hidup tidak dapat perhatian dari keluarga..atau disebabkan ikut-ikutan..yerlah tgk org ada, kita tkda tergugat lah jugak kan, so aper lagi carilah "teman istimewa"..hehe.n slalunye cinta monyet ini lebih tergolong untk mrk yg awal remaja -12-18 yrs old.

i was laughing n grinning when i listened to the "tazkirah". n i recalled abt my own experience..tada..terdetik dlm hati "cinta aku dulu cinta monyet ke?"wakaka..den i pondered n concluded dat mine was not a puppy love..maybe mine lebih sesuai dikatakan cinta tak kesampaian..haha..sob2..i can say mine is "Cinta Blurr Sotong".satu nak ke kiri, satu nak ke kanan..satu nak ke timur, satu nak ke berat..confused kan tu..buat ape pening kepala?dua-dua angkat kaki, ikutlah haluan sendiri..bukannye give up n tknak menempuh bersama, cume rasanye ader perjuangan yg lebih getir yang harus diutamakan.. soal hati, biar Allah yang pandu..ada jodoh isyaAllah cinta lama boleh berputik semula-mungkin terjumpa di tengah jalan atau terserempak di kutub selatan..klu pun mmg tiada jodoh, yang pasti yg hilang akan berganti,yang patah akan tumbuh..BILA?,SIAPA? itu rahsia ilahi, n kesabaran perisai diri..so dun worry, be happy:).Yang pasti Dia Maha Memberi n yg pasti PemberianNya yg paling "Istimewa" and bererti!

Aper pulak eh istilah cinta those yg da 18 thn keatas tapi tkda matlamat dlm hubungan?hehe.wat the pensyarah said itu kita panggil "Cinta Beruk" atau "Cinta Gorilla"?haha..klakar betul bile didengar..

So the bottomline and reminder for myself n others is bercintalah kerana ianya Fitrah, tap jgn cinta sampai menjadi Fitnah..berkasihlah kerana ianya Suci tetapi jgn sampai kesuciannya Ternoda..batasilah cinta itu dgn Syariat, dan jadikan mencapai keredhaan Allah sebagai Matlamat.

To all lovers:



WeeWee, yup..Nothing much to update, but ya just wanna share my thoughts here..

I spent my weekend w mum,sis, Dzakir and Anaqi at Vivocity..Im not a fan of Vivocity, the mall too huge dat i always get lost..crowded n more in my list..haha.But im nt gg to talk abt shopping malls..But im going to talk abt people here..or specifically this "weird" species named "Guy".
1st, im not being prejudice or making a generalization here..but i jus feel there is common thing they have except for those guys dat are "extraordinary" special and may be going to extinct soon. Im gg to talk abt the common one here bcoz they're the one dat unfortunately i always meet..

As usual, everytime when i go out w anaqi , my attention is more to him rather than the shopping itself..And one thing abt me, i always love to see those toddlers especially boys n i will be crazy starring at them.."cutenye!", "besarnye matenye", "so chubby"! n so on.

There is one part while im waiting for my mum,sis outside Chomel..Alone standing while spotting for cute toddlers,from far there's one guy n his gf walked towards my direction..But i feel annoyed by this guy, he's looking at me..i dun noe him n i dun find him familiar..Initially i dun mind bcoz i tink is ok for anybody to look at somebody else..But i tink he was too much,when he starred and smiled at me..and in my heart i was like "hello, how can u look at ppl like dat n excuse me ur gf is jus next to u"?but ya i dun utter it..

I saw mom approaching me, n i hold her hand tight and moved away..reason being it i thought dat way will make him stop starring at me..at least shows respect to the elders..my trick doesnt work, this guy with so "selamba" playing eyes w me..

I told mum "mak,cepat jalan la..tk senonoh la", i asked mom is there something on my face or dress?mom replied everything perfectly fine.

Wat i can conclude maybe this guy never sees "an alien" like me before and he's so rude!Wow, how can u do dat when ur partner jus bside u?miang, mentel, meremang bulu roma!bukan la nk ckp ape kan, tap kan kurang sopan cara sebegitu..klu dpn gf da brani buat, aperlagi blakang gf..Mungkinkah lelaki ni terlalu lemah pandangan mereka?or itu mungkin memang da menjadi "part" of guys.

Most importantly, what i want to remind myself here and to whoever reading dis is always lower our gaze..in fact there's verse in Quran to remind us on this..Eyes can be root of evils.

I always love to see handsome, sweet guys (in my definition). Hati mcm terpesona melihat wajah kacak mereka..tap i'll always try to remind myself dat im jus praising and astonish w Allah's creations..ok kan..hehehe

I always remember this saying by most asatizah "Pandangan pertama itu rezeki untk melihat kebesaran ciptaan Allah, tapi pandangan yg kedua itu merupakan dorongan nafsu" . Pedas betul tapi itulah hakikat.

So the golden rule: is to train our eyes to lower our gaze ol the time. Or if it's too hard, maybe for a start "See once den lower your gaze"!heee.The former is the best, as for the latter-it's my "recommendation"..heee


To my gfs who have bfs, just ensure that their eyes dont wander arnd..and to my dear gfs who looking for bfs or life partners, find those "extraordinary special" one. insyaAllah, there's still a few left for us..hehe

But before we can hav dat "extraordinary special" one, i guess we jus hav to be one..rite?!